So many of us women “fall” in love and get so wrapped up in a man that, even when he refuses to change his negative behavior, cheating ways, and dishonest spirit, we make every excuse to stay with him in hopes that he will change. Newsflash! Change is something that you have to want and it cannot be forced upon anyone. If your man won’t make the necessary changes on his own, what makes you think that he’ll change for you? Of course, the right woman can come along and have a positive impact on a man and influence him to change but he still has to actually want to change. Trust me, if you mean that much to him, he will do everything in his power to ensure your happiness. Now I’m not saying that you need to push for perfection because you’re not perfect either! Just understand that you don’t have to tolerate behavior that has a negative impact on your relationship, your mental and emotional spirit. There’s always another man who’s willing to step up and be who you need him to be and if your man understands your worth, he will step up if he cares enough. Don’t spend years trying to promote change in a man. You’ll waste your time. Men are replaceable, time isn’t! So definitely make a valid effort to make things work but just don’t be a fool!